i think of Cris
and hope he will wait and i don't die.
i wake up. ( i am an older man in alet 30's during the war stuff. slightly weather
beaten, kind, determined, peaceful at heart, but will gight if i have to but
don't want to. scared but courageous, diligent, thiughtful, loyal, sad, very
alone. a loner, slightly lonely....somewhat like my dad/harrison ford/me )
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it's now 6:29am and still very dark. the garbage men are outside. i took a xanax
and have calmed down considerably. i feel safe again. i lit my pink candle and
dhopp incense. my room is very clean. i cleaned it last night and put two more
garbage bags of clothes downstairs so now no pile is on my floor. the first
in months.
i have all my musical stuff out now in front of me on a chair. i wrote my 1st new song in about a year on the 3rd. very pop/newwave called "i'm inside". i like it a lot.
we were going
to play a show in the main room with Spirit but it got cancelled and Steve offered
us a different but lame show which we declined.
we'll start back up with practice in March with, hopefully, bunches of new songs.
Dominique said she would like to learn to play keyboards.
so much to say,
once again, but now i'm tired.
i have to get back to bed to get back up at 9am. i have a split shift.
oh ya...Teresa, who i work with, is going to move in here on the 11th.
just ate a french meadow bakery blueberry muffin.
it's 6:45 am and considerably lighter outide.
2.8.1991 11:24pm
i dream a lot about war, futuristic things, ecology, band, cris.
i am happy about teresa moving in. i am finding we have a lot of things in common.
our voices are even similiar.
i am aort of watching "down by law" again. "valleygirl"
is on in 4 minutes. if i watch it, i have seen it 5 or 6 times.
i still watch twin peaks every week. some stories are getting pretty corny,
but the ufo bit is good.
i stilll have problems and nightmares about arden and nikki and now i have the
problem of cris of he is bored of many things i talk about. that is a bad sign.
i hope not.
but we love each other immensely. someday maybe things will be ironed out and
i can be confident and peaceful.
i am watching a lot of informative things on TV lately about ecology and black
people.
i wish i wanted to go into detail, but it's all in my head.
song title: disappear
2.3.1991
I'm Inside
when i was a
child
i could build a fort
i would go inside it
with nothing to report
when i was a
child
i could build a wall\it'd be made of pillows
and it would never fall
i'm inside
when i was a
child
i could build a hill
and no one ever climbed it
and no one ever will
when i was a
child
i could build a state
only love you'd find there
there was never hate
2.10.1991
How Can You
what did i ever
do to deserve to be spit on like this, BEST FRIEND?
now you're kissing me with your fist.
what is the meaning THE MEANING OF THIS?
HOW CAN YOU BE SO MEAN
i opened up
to you like a flower
you came inside of me all of the way
but you stung me with freezing poison
but it didn't numbthe pain, i'm afraid
how can you
be so mean?
how can you do this to me?
don't you realize
all of your violence,
unemotional cutting remarks,
leaves me lost, bewildered and trembling?
i am a child afraid of the dark
how can you?
2.17 1991
Flying
i'm whistling
on a window
laughing in a teardrop
staring at a stranger
crying at the busstop
tearing all my postcards
tossing all my notions
turning round the corner
going through the motions
i'm flying
dancing at the
airport
waving at the driver
drowning in a sanddrift
diving at the diver
running in the highway
ripping down the stopsigns
feeling all the sunrsys
steeping cross the borderline
i'm flying
nothing can stop me
spitting at
the tv
sailing on broken glass
spinning in a cloudburst
going over the underpass
changing the channel
drawing on the white walls
smashing all the closed doors
screaming down the long hall
i'm flying
3.2.1991 8:39am
Dream:
far off, in the beginning of my dream, i was in a jungle place with someone
looking for something in a swamp.
the cris told
me he was going to go to this party with pod (?) or maybe this good looking
oriental girl i didn't know.
then i was at the oriental girl's house and cris was going to pick her up there.
against my better sense, i just starting trashing the place. she was afraid
of me and i hated her and didn't want to. i felt ridicullous because i was trying
to rationalize was i was so mad. i was trying to tell myself it didn't matter
because i would see cris when he got home and there was nothing between cris
and her. but i was so mad that cris hadn't asked me to go with him. he wanted
me not to come and to be away from me with somone else. i was throwing things
everywhere. i kjnew that cris was due any minute. then i stopped and said to
the girl that i was sorry. i was afraid at the damage i had done. i hugged her,
she being reluctant, of course, and i tried to console her that i would never
hurt her again. she was as tall as me and sort of almost my body type. then
cris came and got her and they left.
so i was trying to decide if i should go do something to show my independence
or just stay home and feel miserable.
then i wa at michele's house. she was having a party.
i was in a room. everyone was talking. i had drunk something or smoked hash
or did acid or something but it hadn't affected me yet. i decided to have a
bong hit...but then it hit me...so i decided not to.
i was very stoned with tunnel vision so i decided to go into the next room and
try to regain myself. ( before i decided to take anothe hit, i was talking to
this kid that comes in to Ragstock and smells bad and is schozophrenic. i am
talking to him and he doesn't seem as insane to me, although he looks terrible
and smells bad. he is waiting for a date. all of a sudden i realize that i'm
the only one talking to him and i shouldn't be talking to him because he is
a crazy, danergous and bad person...that is when i decide to move away from
him and have another hit).
so i'm in this
room ( the kitchen) by myself watching cnn (?) on cable. then two guys and a
kid walks in. the man is tired and listless but he has cocaine and he asks me
if i want some. i say no way. so he snorts a lot right out of this envelope.
NO WAUT...i go into the kitchen and because i'm really stoned i get a gigantic
nosebleed. i think this is very odd and i wonder why it's happening.
so this guy does a lot of cocaine and his nose is white with powder.
then he starts running around and playing with the child. i'm amazed at how
he is awake. i am still holding my nose with a kleenex. i decide to leave the
kitchen because they are there.
i walk into the room and notice everyone has gone.
i panic. where have they gone? why has no one asked me to come with? are they
coming back? how long will they be away? are they with cris? what time is it?
what is cris doing? where am i , anyway?
i explore michele's house. it is vast and luxurious. maybe i am with someone,
but i feel alone. i run into the butler and the staff. they are all men. i start
to tell one my problem. i am tell him how scared i am and about my bloody nose.
i think how mice to have him there to listen, and no...i am not alone, and give
me advice. but then everyone comes home just as he's getting an evil look in
his eye and puts his hand in his pants to scratch his genitals. then he gets
up to leave and he pushes his erect penis( that is still his pants ) very close
to my face.
i close my eyes and pretend not to see.
i am disapointed that everyone has bad intentions.
i decide not to be with the othes. i feel like exploring the house.
i guess they had gone out to 7-11 or something.
i am with someone, maybe carolyn. we go into the next level of the (my) house.
then i remember this house before ( from a previous dream) and say, " did
you know about the top floor that's haunted?". she says yes but she never
had the guts to make it that far. she asks, "how have you been?" and
i say, "the very top".
then i wonder to myself if it was the very top. i star to feel the anxiety of
going up to the top with her but i want to go up there and i am curious. then
someone points to a curious room, "look at all this grease and the curtians
have been shredded".
we think it might be evidence of a poltergeist. then we see a small grey cat
that i know convulsing by the window of the torn curtains. then we deduct it
was the cat that did this and it is very ill and near death. it is convulsing
horribly. i panic and want to call 911, then i think they probably won't care
about a cat.
then i say, " let me see the phonebok so i can call a vet" (by the
way, the man with the dick said he was 6'5" and i tell him the story of
how Ed is 6'1" and how i couldn't barely reach to kiss him and that's when
he put his hand down his pants).
the mother of the house, who is not michele in a "blah-zay" way gives
me the # to her personal vet. but there are lots of names and numbers and i
panic and can't find it on the page. then i find it and the vet lives in illinois.
no one seems to care about this poor cat. no one is helping me. then the cat
dies.
the mother says it's dead.
i burst out in painful sobs.
no one else is crying or feeling anything, even though it is their cat.
i feel so alone and angry and cnfused as to why everyone is so horrible. i say
what else can go wrong? why is this happening to me? what have i done?
then cris calls
me and i am relieved he is home. but he tells me he doesn't want to see me even
now because why would he after i trash that house and am glomming on him all
the time and being so horny lately. it wasn't like em and i'm being weird.
i am just stricken with pain at feeling ridiclous over not being able to control
my anger at trashing the house. i feel not in control. i am angry he cannot
understand but i feel i am digging my own grave.
going back again, when i was sitting with everyone, this woman was lying on the ground reciting a demonic ritual. when she was done i told her that was ridiculous and pretty funny. i scorn her but then fee everyone's scorn of me. so i say, " sorry, whatever makes you happy is good for you." and i think to myseld maybe i'm not LOVING enough and that's why all this bad stuff is happening to me. i realize how stuck in the habit of scorning i am and how hard it is to get out of. i feel i should burn some purification incense to get her bad vibes out of the room but i can't find all the ingredients.
***previous
dream from months ago:
i am in a house and the higher in it i go, the more pressure i feel on my eyes
and body and soul, as i feel the deeper you go under water. but i force myself
higher and higher into this room that is very bright with indirect sunlight.
everything is very neat but dusty. no one has been up here for a long time.
i feel such a compressing pressure. i wonder who used to live here? what happened
here? , etc. i look around in the drawers and old photographs. but i don't touch
much. the room is very white or beige. then i leave because the pressure is
too much. i have dreamt a lot of haunted places, i think always in a room that
is high up in a house.