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26, 2007 |
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8:12pm
i have received a few questions since
starting all nude all week....inevitably many of them sexual :)
in the spirit of education (and fun) i will respond to questions here :)
questions about diet, sex and orgasm.
first off, thank you to all new members for joining :)
if you have any questions on where anything is or how things work, please
feel free to ask :)
the forum is called "under the bed" and is in the menu.
i guess the 1st myth to dispel (as
so vividly shown in the response by some people, even my friends) is not all
pregnant women gain a TON of extra weight in fat (but i have gained 17 pounds
in baby and everything else)
i ahve not done anything to try and NOT gain weight. in fact, i have done
EVERYTHING to gain it.
since after i give birth, i will burn up to 500 calories a day just by breastfeeding,
i welcome any extra fat i can get on my body!
but since i don't gain much fat, i just eat and eat and eat in order to give
as much nutrients to the whole baby making process as i can. i eat whatever
i want (well except i have cut out any junk food, mostly, almost all caffeine
and that sort of thing). i try to eat at least 60 mg of protein a day.
this is actually difficult because the baby is so big now there isn't much
room in my body for the other internal organs, like breathing...or having
a bladder....and my stomache...i eat constantly through the day...just little
bits.
2nd myth to dispel is that all pregnant
women have no interest in sex!
this is true for some but not all.
definitely i have less sex now than when i wasn't pregnant, but it isn't because
i don't have a libido but because sex is just uncomfortable a lot of the time.
with a baby pressing against everything inside and stretching everything to
its capacity..it's hard to also have pressure from the outside and a penis
pressing me from yet another angle.
it's like being squashed from all sides!
but we have found new positions from behind and on the side..and me on top,
which have been working :)
(thank goodness :)
and you know, if i am just too damn uncomfortable then i just give him a handjob...which
then usually ends up leading to intercourse anyway because i get too turned
on to just leave it at that :)
why a handjob and not a blow job?
mostly because to have anything in my mouth causes me to gag.
brushing my teeth while pregnant has been a total unhappy ordeal.
i brush my teeth as fast as i can to get it over with.
i haven't had too much morning sickness but things like brushing my teeth
can trigger it.
also sadly, i have not been able to RECEIVE oral sex while pregnant either
because i am SO highly sensitive down there it tickles! all i end up doing
is laughing and screaming...it tickles way too much.
all the nerves on my body are way more heightened.
even the soles of my feet.
sometimes i cannot even bear to wear socks, or even feel anything on my feet
including walking on the floor or the feel of the sheets on the bed.
orgasm has been very interesting while pregnant!
during the 1st trimester my orgasms were much more intense.
and also i found that i could come much much faster!
i think it has something to do with the pressure from everything inside...it's
like it made all my nerves closer to the surface or something?
having the presure from within as well as from without intensified things.
then in the 2nd trimster this continued but my orgasm happened even sooner.
like a 16 year old boy or something! wham bam in 30 seconds.
at first this was amusing..but now i find it to be rather annoying.
i'd like it to last longer!
and then now, i still come very very fast, but my orgasms started to become
not as intense.
i don't have any explanations for why that would be.
i'm working on it not being that way :)
they are still really nice :) but i'd like a really explosive one like i ahd
in the 1st trimester :)
but in a way it's all fine because every time i orgasm, my uterus contracts
and becomes rock hard which causes lili (the baby) to start kicking me a lot
:)
sometimes i wonder if the sound of
the hitachi magic wand ( my vibrator) drives her crazy or has become a soothing
sound?
it certainly has to be vibrating her head by now.
but i like the feel of it on my head (whebn i have a headache) so maybe she
does too?
hard to say!
also sometime in the 3rd trimester
i started realizing that during intercourse things were more intense in a
different way. it made me spaz out and things felt "too much" in
a good way in a different spot.
i'm sure now that this is because my G-spot is being touched a lot more now
because of the rpessure from inside pressing it more outward, instead of it
being inward as it was before.
hard to explain the anatomy of it in words. maybe i'll draw a picture later.
but anyway, ya, the g-spot is definitely getting some action :)
and this is nice!
i've never been able to come from actual intercourse.
no position i have found stimulates my clit in the way i need it to during
it.
sure i could use my hand or something to get myself off as he was in me...but
i find that the feeling of it just gets in the way. it's like when he is in
me..that is a hammer...and me touching myself is so much more light...it really
just gets lost in the fray of sensation.
so i come before or after intercourse and then just experience him inside
of me purely.
but of course i'd love to come from it!
BUT....since this new g-spot stimulation thnig has been happening i was wondering
if i COULD come from intercourse now.
the other night after sex i was still very horny so i got out my annie sprinkle
dildo...
this wonderul black marble one that curves to hit the g spot.
i have tried to come from stimulating my g spot before.
many times in fact, and while it's felt really good and i felt as tho i might
be able to come, i never did.
but THIS time...and actually within a minute and not trying to hard i DID
come!
i had my actual FIRST nonclitoral orgasm!
i was elated because this means i CAN come in a nonclitoral way! new possibilities!
amazing!
i really thought a nonclitoral orgasm
would feel differently, but strangley it felt exactly like a clitoral orgasm.
i was surprised!
well, this is something i will be experimenting with more.
and i would be sad if i lost this ability after i give birth.
but if i do, at least i did get to experience it for awhile.
ok, that's about it for now.
M will be home soon and i want to get ready for that.
also find something to eat (is there ice cream left?)
and watch some shows on PBS :)
i need to lay down because my back hurts.
1:57pm
a friend i have known since i was
16 just has no tact whatsoever.
i have had it with her.
that's it. no more. the last straw.
in response to my most recent post where i posted photos of me nude and said it was to celebrate the female form in pregnancy my friend wrote:
"For the Love of God.....
EAT!!!!!!
I will bring you food if you want....
just...fucking....EAT!!!!"
ya. nice, huh?
so i deleted her comment and responded to her that what she said was extremely rude and really hurt my feelings.
and she writes back to me today:
"i hear you are pregnant.....i
don't see any images of you for months...i see you...and there's this tiny
little bump....the baby is supposed to be due soon...but where's the weight?
my instinct is to say "let me feed you" rude? hurtful? I'm sure
anything I said to you would be rude and hurtful.... "
with friends like this...who needs
enemies?
i'm sad to cut her out of my life after 25 years...but i'm just so sick of
this kind of stuff constantly coming out of her mouth at me.
i don't need my feelings hurt over and over again.
if she really was concerned about my weight, i think there are more tactful
ways to be concerned.
and what is this i "hear" you are pregnant? and "i don't see
any photos of you for MONTHS"? wtf?
and her comment was hardly a kind "let me feed you". :/
whatever.
i don't think this is how you treat a pregnant friend if you have any care for them.
and here i had even invited her to
my baby shower.
well, i'm glad she showed her true colours at me before it happened. because
i don't need a person with this kind of "care" for me hurling these
kind of words at me at my baby shower, ruining the entire day for me.
she just makes me cry.
seriously.
i am so upset with her.
i shouldn't have to explain to her
why this hurt me or explain to her how she could have been nicer.
not after 25 years of knowing me and how i react to these sorts of comments.
i could expect a comment like that from some fly by poster who does not know
me at all.
but a friend of 25 years??
there is no excuse for it.
:(
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in other news, i think the baby dropped
a little..
it's hard to really tell, but i think for sure she dropped a few inches!
my belly is not as pressed up against my breasts like a shelf and i can touch
my ribs a little bit more.
she is also kicking me with a vengeance way down low in my intestines or something.
sharp pains! oof!
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baby registry!
I thought you might like to know that I have created a Baby Registry at Amazon.com. You can find it anytime by searching for my name at http://www.amazon.com/babyregistry.
Best Wishes,
ana voog and matthew bruce
You can see ana voog and matthew bruce's entire Baby Registry at:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/baby/3BKBUJCBUDKXC
ok, here it is!
if you can think of anything else that would be good for me to add, let me
know :)
if you find a better price for things or want to buy it somewhere else or simply send something else or give us a gift of money (yes!!! $ will go to buy fuzzi bunz cloth diapers and medical costs)
please send to:
ana voog
p.o. box 76152
saint paul, MN
55175
make cheques and money orders
out to:
rachael olson (my legal name) or matthew bruce
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